CATDOLL: It’s better to get out of staying at home early. It’s hard to find a partner. Is 25 years old the best time to choose?

CATDOLL: It’s better to get out of staying at home early. It’s hard to find a partner. Is 25 years old the best time to choose?

What do you think of being a homebody? Have you ever thought about whether you will still be a homebody when you are older? Is it good or bad to be a homebody for life? Recently, Japanese media reported that "you should stop being a homebody after the age of 25".

1. Because of the income, it becomes more and more addictive

"I loved Johnny's when I was in elementary school, and my parents bought me DVDs when I was in junior high school, so I watched the performances of idols during my free time. After high school and college, I started working part-time, so I was able to buy what I wanted. Now that I have entered the working world, I don't save any of the money I earn, I spend it all on idols. Now I feel like I won't stop until I buy all the limited edition CDs, DVDs, peripherals and magazines." (26 years old/clerk)

When we were students, we had limited funds to use. After we turned 25, we had more money to some extent. So when we came to our senses, we had spent a lot of money on idols and anime without realizing it. It is precisely because we have the freedom to spend money that we should consider how to spend it more carefully.

2. If you are still like this after you are 25, no one of the opposite sex will be interested in you.

"When I was in my early 20s, it was still fashionable to say that I was a stay-at-home. However, I liked watching anime more than having a boyfriend, so even if I found a partner, it would be difficult to have a long-term relationship... When I turned 25, I thought, "I'm still young, it doesn't matter," but the pressure to get married had already hit me. When I came to my senses, I found that no men would invite me, and my friends became fewer, so I ended up feeling very lonely. Although I am working hard to get married now, I deeply feel that it would be better if I could stop being a stay-at-home person sooner." (32 years old/lawyer)

When we are around 20 years old, we can still enjoy our youth and do whatever we want. If we leave the otaku at that time, we may have found the ideal partner. But after 25 years old, reality is not so naive. You can't just rely on men to take the initiative in love. Women must also take positive actions. Otherwise, the chances will become fewer and fewer. If you continue to indulge in the world of otaku with the idea that "it doesn't matter because you are still young" and "the destined person will always appear", then there will be no encounters. In addition, if you are an idol otaku, please consider the situation where the idol suddenly announces his marriage. Anime otakus also have to consider the day when the work is finished. At this time, even if you feel "I was betrayed!" "He clearly said that he would not get married...!" It will be useless. Some people may choose to continue to escape from reality, but just because you are over 25 years old, you should have the courage to leave the otaku.

[No matter how hard you try, time will never come back]

Recently many people have said: "Dating costs money and time anyway, so why not prioritize your own interests!" Although there is nothing wrong with this statement, when we get older, we will also sigh, "If only I had attended a friend's party back then...", "All I have left is nothing but these dead things..." In a sense, getting out of being a homebody is also very important for achieving happiness in reality.

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